How to Set Monthly Money Goals That Stick

Let’s be honest, love—how many times have you set a money goal for the month, only to end up ignoring it halfway through, avoiding your budget like an ex, and feeling guilty when you don’t hit your target?

I’ve been there. I used to write down income goals on the first of every month, all ambitious and inspired… but by week two? I was overwhelmed, second-guessing myself, and honestly—avoiding my bank account altogether.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. And no, it’s not because you’re not “disciplined enough.” It’s because you haven’t been taught how to set money goals that are emotionally aligned, energetically grounded, and strategically clear.

So today, I’m giving you exactly that.

Here’s how to set a monthly money goal that sticks—without the hustle, without the guilt, and without the chaotic energy that repels abundance.

✨ Step 1: Set the Intention, Not Just the Number

Too many women make the mistake of pulling a number out of thin air—“I want to make $10K this month”—without asking the most important question:

👉 Why this number?

Before you chase any number, pause and connect to the intention behind it. What is the deeper desire?

Do you want $10K because you want to pay off a credit card and finally feel free?
Or maybe because you want to invest in a course that’ll change your business?
Or treat yourself to a luxury experience that activates your next level?

💎 Money without meaning feels empty.
When your goal is emotionally charged, it becomes magnetic.

So ask yourself:

• What is the money for?
• How will this amount support the woman I’m becoming?
• How does it feel to receive this money with ease?

This isn’t about math—it’s about alignment. Feel into the number before you commit to it.

✨ Step 2: Anchor It Into Your Identity

If your goal doesn’t feel possible for the version of you today, you’re not going to pursue it consistently. You’ll self-sabotage. Procrastinate. Shrink.

So here’s what I teach my clients (and what I did when I went from $3K to consistent $30K months):

You must ask, “Who is the woman who naturally earns this amount?”

And then become her now.

That’s called identity anchoring.
If your goal is $15,000 this month:

• How does a woman who receives $15K think?
• What’s her daily routine like?
• What boundaries does she hold?
• What is she available for—and not available for?

This is the difference between hustling for the goal and embodying the goal.

💄 Style tip: I personally dress for my money goals. When I was stretching into my first $20K month, I wore bold lipstick and heels on coaching days—even if I never left the house. That version of me showed up like she was already there. And guess what? The money followed.

✨ Step 3: Break It Down Into Aligned Actions

Dreaming is divine. But we also need structure.

Once your monthly goal is emotionally and energetically aligned, you need to ask:
👉 What aligned actions will support this?

If your goal is income-based, map out:

• How many offers you need to sell
• The price point of each offer
• How many people you need to reach

Then make it actionable:

• How will you market your offer?
• What value will you share this week?
• What conversations will you initiate?

The key is to keep your actions clean and focused—not scattered and frantic.

✨ Aligned action is not about doing more. It’s about doing the right things from the right energy.

For example: – Record one powerful Instagram video sharing your story
– Host a free training that aligns with your paid offer
– Connect with potential clients via DM (from a place of service, not selling)

Every week, return to your goal and ask:
“What’s the one thing I can do this week to move closer to this number?”
Then do that. And let it be enough.

✨ Step 4: Create Rituals That Rewire Your Money Mindset

If you don’t believe you can receive that money, you’ll block it—even if you’re doing everything else right.

That’s why money rituals are a non-negotiable in my world.
They keep your mindset clean, your nervous system safe, and your energy open to receiving.

Here are my go-to millionaire rituals:

🌙 Scripting Every Morning:

Write out your goal in the present tense.
“I’m so grateful I made $15K this month doing what I love. My clients are aligned, my content flows, and money supports me daily.”

💸 Wealth Expansion List:

Each night, write down all the ways you received or held abundance that day. – A client signed up
– A stranger bought your ebook
– You said no to something misaligned (which protected your energy = wealth)

🕯️ Embodiment Moments:

Before a sales call, I light a candle, put on perfume, and breathe into the version of me who already hit the goal. It’s not about the client—it’s about me matching the frequency.

Your rituals should make you feel rich before you are.

✨ Step 5: Detach from the Timeline—but Stay Devoted

Here’s where most women trip up:
If they don’t see immediate results, they start shrinking their goal. They lose faith. They say, “Maybe it’s not meant for me.”

But here’s the truth:
Your dream doesn’t operate on your ego’s timeline.

Yes, set a monthly goal. But don’t tie your worth to whether or not you hit it in 30 days. Devotion is more powerful than desperation.

The woman who eventually earns $30K months is the one who keeps showing up for $3K ones. Why? Because her identity is stable. Her belief is unshakable. Her energy doesn’t rise and fall with her Stripe notifications.

Let your monthly goal stretch you.
Let it call you forward.
But never let it shame you.

✨ Bonus: Track Like a CEO, Celebrate Like a Goddess

We don’t just set the goal—we track it.

I keep a running money tracker in my Notes app. Every time money comes in, no matter how small, I log it.

And then? I celebrate it like I just landed a book deal.

A $37 sale? I dance. A client paid in full? I light a candle and whisper “thank you.”

Tracking keeps you grounded. Celebrating keeps you magnetic.

And when your energy is grateful + grounded? That’s when money flows like magic.

Final Words, Beautiful:

You’re not flaky. You’re not undisciplined. You’re not “bad with money.”

You just haven’t been taught how to set goals that are based in alignment instead of pressure… devotion instead of desperation… and strategy rooted in self-worth, not self-doubt.

This is your new standard: 🌹 Set a number with intention
🌹 Anchor it to your identity
🌹 Take simple, aligned action
🌹 Rewire your mindset with daily rituals
🌹 Track, celebrate, and detach from pressure

Money loves women who lead themselves.
Money loves women who believe they’re worthy.
Money loves you—when you love you.

So go set that number. And then show up like it’s already yours.

Because it is. 💋