The Art of Receiving: Stop Chasing, Start Attracting

There is a soft, sacred power that lives in every woman. A power that doesn’t shout, doesn’t chase, and doesn’t need to perform to be worthy.
This power is called receiving—and most of us were never taught how to access it.

Instead, we were taught to hustle. To over-give. To earn love, attention, success, and safety through doing more, proving more, and constantly striving.

But here’s the truth most women are aching to hear:
You don’t have to chase what’s already aligned. You were never meant to exhaust yourself for what you desire. You were born to attract, to allow, to receive.

This is the sacred art of feminine energy. And when you master the art of receiving, everything begins to shift—your relationships, your self-worth, your magnetism, your flow with life.

Let’s begin at the beginning.

✦ Why We Chase Instead of Receive

Chasing is a symptom of fear.

We chase because we’re afraid we won’t get what we want unless we force it. We believe if we stop pushing, stop controlling, stop striving… nothing will come. Or worse, we’ll be forgotten.

This belief runs deep. For many women, it starts in childhood:

• Being praised for being “helpful” but ignored when resting
• Learning that love is something you earn, not something freely given
• Watching the world reward productivity over presence

So we become women who:

• Over-give in relationships
• Apologize for taking up space
• Push ourselves to burnout
• Feel uncomfortable receiving compliments, help, money, or even pleasure

We become women who chase because we’ve forgotten how to receive.

But feminine energy doesn’t chase. She attracts. She rests in her worth and allows what’s aligned to come toward her—not from arrogance, but from deep trust.

✦ What Receiving Actually Means

Receiving isn’t about passivity. It’s not about sitting on the couch waiting for the universe to drop a soulmate or career in your lap.

Receiving is an energetic posture—a way of being that is open, grounded, and receptive to what’s already trying to come to you.

To receive is to:

• Trust your desire as sacred
• Make space for your needs to be met
• Allow life to support you without guilt
• Be seen, chosen, adored—without shrinking

It is a dance between alignment and surrender.

You show up in your wholeness, take inspired action from intuition (not fear), and then—you let go. You stop grasping. You open your hands, your heart, your energy field.

This is magnetic. This is the sacred feminine.

✦ Signs You’re in Chasing Energy

Let’s gently call out some chasing patterns—because awareness is always the first step to transformation.

You may be in chasing energy if you:

• Feel like you have to prove your worth or be “chosen”
• Constantly initiate, fix, or follow up (especially in dating or work)
• Feel panicky when things slow down or aren’t happening fast enough
• Overthink texts, timelines, or what others think of you
• Say yes to things that drain you just to be liked or needed

These patterns are rooted in lack, fear, and wounded masculine/feminine dynamics.

The shift? Is simple… but not always easy.

✦ The Shift Into Receiving Energy

Here are five powerful practices to move from chasing to receiving energy:

1. Get Clear on What You Actually Desire

So many women are chasing things they don’t even want—just things they think they should want.
The first step to becoming magnetic is clarity. What do you truly desire?

• Do you want a partner who deeply sees and chooses you… or just someone to fill the silence?
• Do you want a business aligned with your soul… or just a title and a paycheck?
• Do you want to be adored… or just not abandoned?

Your clarity creates an energetic invitation. The universe can’t deliver what you keep wavering on.

Write it down. Own it. Don’t shrink your desire—sharpen it.

2. Soften Your Body (Daily)

Your feminine energy lives in your body—not your head.

If you’re always tense, in control, multitasking, and “on”—you are literally pushing away your receptive frequency.
Start making space for softness:

• Breathe deep into your belly
• Move slowly and sensually (even in daily tasks)
• Massage your skin with love
• Relax your jaw, shoulders, hips

Let your body feel safe to open again. A soft body is a receptive body.

3. Let Yourself Be Seen (Without Performing)

Many women are comfortable performing but terrified of being seen.

Receiving requires vulnerability. To receive love, you must let someone witness the real you. To receive abundance, you must share your gifts with the world—even if imperfect.

Start small:

• Let someone give you a compliment (and say thank you without deflecting)
• Post something online that feels true, not just polished
• Ask for help and receive it without guilt

Every time you let yourself be seen without the mask, you signal to life: “I’m ready to receive in my truth.”

4. Practice Energetic Boundaries

Receiving isn’t about saying yes to everything—it’s about saying yes to what aligns.

Your energy is sacred. You can’t receive deeply if you’re always depleted, distracted, or overextended.

Start honoring your “no”:

• Say no to people-pleasing
• Say no to over-explaining
• Say no to relationships that make you chase

Your boundaries are containers for deeper receiving. They tell the world: “I’m not available for crumbs. Only devotion, only alignment.”

5. Anchor Into Trust (Even in the Waiting)

This is the hardest part—receiving often requires waiting. And waiting is vulnerable.

But chasing energy is rooted in distrust. It says: “If I don’t make it happen, it won’t happen.”

Receiving energy says:

“What’s meant for me is already mine. I don’t chase—I choose.”

Trust becomes your anchor when the timeline stretches, when the silence lingers, when nothing “seems” to be happening.

In that space, return to your rituals. Ground into your worth. Tend to your life. And hold the frequency of belief.

✦ What Happens When You Master Receiving

When you shift into your feminine receiving energy, the world responds.
Things begin to come to you with more ease—because your energy is no longer desperate, but devoted.

Here’s what I’ve seen in the women I’ve coached:

• A woman stops chasing emotionally unavailable men—and suddenly her DMs are full of masculine, heart-centered men who pursue her.
• A woman slows down her frantic business strategy—and ends up attracting more aligned clients than ever before.
• A woman says no to a job that drains her—and receives an unexpected offer in a completely different field that lights her up.

This isn’t magic. It’s embodiment.

The universe rearranges for the woman who walks in her worth.

✦ Final Thoughts from Amara

You don’t need to prove yourself. You don’t need to chase.
You don’t need to abandon your softness to be powerful.

There is a new way to live—and it begins with one brave shift:
From forcing… to allowing.
From control… to surrender.
From chasing… to receiving.

You are the invitation. You are the magnet. You are the feminine.

It’s safe now, love.

To be soft.
To be worthy.
To be chosen without the chase.

Want to go deeper?
Join my free masterclass “The Art of Receiving” and begin your journey back to your divine feminine essence.
Because life gets easier—and more beautiful—when you stop chasing and start attracting.

With love and radiance,
Anna🤍